The parenting industry is a multi-billion dollar machine with a simple formula: find the pain point, promise the solution, and collect from parents who are too exhausted and too hopeful to look closely at the fine print. As a therapist and a mom raising a neurodiverse kid, I have watched moms of ADHD kids pour money, energy, and hope into supplements, strategies, and parenting hacks — only to end up more depleted than before. Here is what nobody in that industry wants you to